Delusional Men

I have a friend whose husband divorced her just coz his business is thriving and he can afford to have another wife. And when she said no to polygamy, he said "fine". WTF, right? When his business was down in the dumps, it was his wife who supported him. Not the "new" wife.

Another friend's husband is planning to take another wife just because he feels she's spending too much time on their one-year old son. What gives? Whose son is she taking care of? The worse thing is, he can't even financially afford to have the current wife that he has, let alone taking another!

And if you think it's all about financial stability, you are wrong again. Just having the means to financially support more than 1 wife does not mean you should marry more than one. There's the emotional part, being fair to all your wives. Even in the Holy Quran, it states that if you can't be fair to your wives, just marry one.

Now I know not all men are like that. But those who are, shame on you. How would you feel if your dad took another wife? Or if your brother-in-law did that to your sister? Or if your son-in-law did that to your daughter??? Try putting yourself in other people's shoes for once and not think with your you-know-what!